I and my husband have been married for 5 years but I have known him for 9 years. Although before we got married, I noticed he was a quick tempered person and when even he gets angry he demands for stuff he willingly gave to me. My dad wasn’t happy with me when I told him I wanted to start a family with my husband but we got married anyways.
I must say he’s a good person when he’s in a good mood. But because of his temper and how he behaves sometimes, I started losing my love for him. It got to a point we will be in the same room and I won’t even feel his presence. If we have to communicate then it’s about our children, so, I told him I don’t want to marry again.
He has agreed but with a condition that I will be available for him when even he wants to have something (intimacy) to do with me. That if I decline he won’t take care of the kids which he has started doing.
I asked him if he won’t married again or what. He told me even if he gets married again I will still have to do what he’s asking for because he loves me but it’s me who doesn’t.
To the extent that he wants me to take an oath that I will do as he says. If not I can go with the children and he will not go for any lady but will master because he knows when we aren’t officially divorced, I can’t have anything to do with a man. I can’t be in an unhappy marriage too. What do I do please?
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