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  • My Landlord Became A Thorn In My Side After Snatching His Girlfriend

    Good afternoon, Sister Abena, and greetings to your wonderful Facebook family. #MyLandlordAndI

    My landlord used to bring ladies into the house whenever his wife wasn’t around. I’m on good terms with him and have seen him with these ladies several times but chose to remain silent about it.

    One fateful Wednesday morning, his wife left home very early for the market. After about 45 minutes, a pretty lady arrived as usual. I happened to be outside washing my shoes when the lady arrived on an okada (motorcycle). She greeted me and asked if my landlord was present. Just as I was about to respond, he came out and escorted the lady inside.

    About 10 minutes later, I spotted my landlord’s wife returning from about 300 meters away. Being the good guy that I am, I hurriedly alerted him about the impending danger. At first, he thought I was joking, but as he stepped outside to confirm, he overheard his wife calling someone. He asked me to hide the girl in my room, which I did. The girl sat in my room while I stayed outside. He asked why she had come back and she explained that she wasn’t feeling well and wouldn’t be opening her shop that day, even saying that she might go the next day when she felt better.

    Once the woman entered her room, heavy rain began. I entered my room and saw how disappointed the lady was. She asked me, “Ah bra adɛn, deɛn na ɛkɔso?” (What’s going on). I informed her that the man’s wife had returned, which surprised her as she had been told the man’s wife had passed away two years ago. She was upset and began venting her frustrations, which I can’t even repeat here.

    We struck up a conversation for a few minutes. She felt uneasy with me in the room, fearing my girlfriend or wife might return and create problems. I assured her that I didn’t have a girlfriend or wife, though she remained skeptical. After the rain stopped, she asked me to see her off. During this time, she was engaged in a WhatsApp argument with the man (my landlord).

    We left my room and met my landlord and his wife in the compound. We exchanged greetings, and the man acted as if he knew nothing. His wife, however, seeing the lady asked me, “Eii so you won’t introduce your girlfriend to me, eh?” She then asked for the girl’s name, but the lady gave a false name, he got excited and exclaimed, “eiii. That’s my younger sister’s name o. Wow, then I will watch over him for you, okay. He’s a very good boy, though guys can be stubborn sometimes. But I can assure you that you are safe with him.” These were the words of my landlady.

    Her husband mentioned my name and jokingly said, “Now, I will keep an eye on you, paa! 🤣” The girl kept smiling throughout this exchange, while I remained silent. We headed to the roadside to get her a car for the journey home, but after waiting for about 10 minutes, the rain began again, so we hurried back inside. My landlord was already indoors and didn’t notice our return. Back in my room, the girl smiled at me, and our conversation deepened. She was touched by my landlady’s words, and, we kept chatting and chatting and one thing led to the other, and we knacked 🙈

    Everything happened rather quickly, but I like her, and she likes me too. The girl messaged the man and warned him not to contact her again, thanking him for connecting us. She has been coming to my house since that day and gets along well with my landlady. However, my landlord has become a thorn in my side, calling me names and demanding that I vacate his property.

    Mano fans, what should I do??

  • How iPhone 12 Ended My Relationship

    I didn’t know demanding money from my boyfriend to buy a phone would be a big deal to the extent of costing me so far, the best relationship of my life.

    My boyfriend and I would have been celebrating our 5th anniversary this year, which we both were looking forward to celebrating. We lived happily until I made a friend talk me into doing something stupid.

    I used to have an iPhone 11 but it got spoilt. I wanted to buy an iPhone 12 Pro Max but didn’t have enough so I asked my boyfriend for 4K as a top-up to get the phone.

    He assured me I would get the money in a week. That week passed by, and still hadn’t received the money from him. It was getting to two weeks and still had no phone.

    I told a friend about it and she advised me to start ignoring him and that will compel him to give me the money.

    I did that and moved from his place to mine. He visited me and as stupid as I am, I slammed the door at him without waiting for him to say a word. Little did I know that was the end of our relationship.

    For a week and counting, he hadn’t called me. I called him back and there was no response. I visited his place and the place was vacant.

    I got worried so I went to his parents’ house to ask about his whereabouts. I got there and was told he had traveled outside the country.

    I didn’t give up and was hopeful he would call back and that was after two months I went to inquire from him from his family.

    My boyfriend sent me a break-up text one afternoon and I felt my heart sink into my stomach and bouncing back to its position.

    So that is how a healthy 4-year relationship came to an end because of iPhone 12 Pro Max. Is there any way I can win my man back?

    I don’t know how I can get over this break-up.

  • My Husband Still Wants Us To Be Making Love With Me After Our Divorce

    I and my husband have been married for 5 years but I have known him for 9 years. Although before we got married, I noticed he was a quick tempered person and when even he gets angry he demands for stuff he willingly gave to me. My dad wasn’t happy with me when I told him I wanted to start a family with my husband but we got married anyways.

    I must say he’s a good person when he’s in a good mood. But because of his temper and how he behaves sometimes, I started losing my love for him. It got to a point we will be in the same room and I won’t even feel his presence. If we have to communicate then it’s about our children, so, I told him I don’t want to marry again.

    He has agreed but with a condition that I will be available for him when even he wants to have something (intimacy) to do with me. That if I decline he won’t take care of the kids which he has started doing.

    I asked him if he won’t married again or what. He told me even if he gets married again I will still have to do what he’s asking for because he loves me but it’s me who doesn’t.

    To the extent that he wants me to take an oath that I will do as he says. If not I can go with the children and he will not go for any lady but will master because he knows when we aren’t officially divorced, I can’t have anything to do with a man. I can’t be in an unhappy marriage too. What do I do please?

  • I’m In Love With My Girlfriend’s Mother

    Dear Aunty Abena,

    I hope my email finds you well. I’m a very confused young man, and if you don’t help me, I don’t know what I’ll do.

    I met a lady one day, and in fact, she was my spec. I approached and told her everything about myself and that I wanted her to be my girlfriend, but she told me we should start off as friends because she’s had so many guys proposing to her that she needs time to see if I’m the one. I didn’t relent and accepted the challenge.

    I bought lunch to be delivered to her, perfumes, clothing, and every shopping she requested, but she was still refusing to give me a positive response. I begged her to show me some consideration and asked to meet her family members in case she wasn’t sure about me.

    She took me to meet her mother, and it’s there I saw a different side to her that I didn’t know. Aunty Abena, could you believe that this lady watched as her mother served me, swept the porch, and mopped some spilled juice? My prompts for her to help her mother yielded no results.

    Her mother is a single mum, very humble, respectful, and hardworking. I just liked her at first sight. When we were leaving, I don’t know what came over me, but I hugged her. Since then, this woman has been in my thoughts, and I’ve developed some kind of love that I can’t explain. I know it’s wrong, but I can’t shake it off.

    I stopped calling her daughter, which became another issue because I finally had to respond and tell her I’m no longer interested. She seems to have fallen for me because she says she was only stretching me to see how serious I was and wants me to tell her the truth. I told her I’d found someone, and she did her own digging. Because she didn’t find anything, she’s always at my house, workplace, and practically stalking me on social media.

    Right now, I don’t know what to do. I’m very much confused because I have been talking to her mother daily and I feel that the love is becoming more. The lady is happy that at least I’m still talking to her mother but she doesn’t know my real reason. Is it a good idea to tell her? Please help.